11.30.2014

MAKING CHRISTMAS MERRY: A Guest Series

I trust you are all recovering - however slowly - from the fabulous, family and food-filled festival (yay, alliteration!) that is the American Thanksgiving! 

We are currently nursing Eli's gut back to health after an unfortunate run-in with some rolls that had dairy in them. LESSON LEARNED: With a milk protein intolerant little one, ALWAYS read the package first.

Anyway, with that behind us and the Christmas season ahead, I am SO THRILLED to finally unveil a little idea I put together with the help of my friends and family to get into the spirit of the season.


I hemmed and hawed during the fall, considering what I could share on the blog for the month of December, leading into Christmas. I had a lot of project ideas and recipes I could share, but as I prayed and considered how I could bless others, I didn't feel led in that direction. Instead, I felt inspired to do the opposite; instead of sharing loads of ideas for what my family does to prepare for or enjoy the Holidays, why not ask what others do?  

What makes my friends' Christmases special?

And so, "Making Christmas Merry!" was born: a very special guest series exploring what makes OTHERS' Christmases "merry."

In this series, my friends, family members, and favorite bloggers will be sharing with you the traditions, recipes, or projects that most make their Christmases special or memorable.

I am so honored that these wonderful friends have accepted the invitation to share with you their heart for the season! Here are all the people from whom you can look forward to hearing in the month to come:

12/1   - "Slowing Down" by Lindsay Paris of "While Lola Naps"
12/3   - "Peanut Clusters & Town-Wide Tours" by LaRee Longtin (aka my Mom)
12/5   - "Jambalaya & PJs" by Caitlin Sheehan of "House 6"
12/8   - "It's All About the Tree" by Kathryn Nielsen of "Confessions of a Material Girl"
12/10 - "Happy Birthday, Jesus!" by  Me (with a bonus recipe to Nameless Cake!)
12/12 - "Cooking & Craft Traditions" by Vanessa Thiel of "Mama's Happy Hive" and      
            "Christian Montessori Network"
12/15 - "Yankee Swap & Cheese Wafers" by Sarah Doremus (aka my name twin & 8th cousin 3x removed!)
12/17 - "It's Christmastime in the City" by Jayme Faletti
12/18 - "We'll Be Home for Christmas [Eve]"   Kimberly Doremus of "KimBEARably Kute"
12/19 - "Not As Happy, but Just As Joyful"  Lucas Doremus (aka the Hubby)
*Links to blog posts will be added as each contributor's posts are published. 

I hope you are excited as I am to read what my friends, family, and fellow bloggers choose to share! I pray that you are touched by their reflections and inspired by the way they use their hands to prepare their hearts and/or the hearts of their little ones for this special time of year. 

As for us, we just got done putting up our Christmas tree in the playroom, with a lot of help from Little Mouse! Enjoy our little video below (and thanks to hubby for the quick editing!) Background music is "Christmas Lights" by The Original Skazz Band
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11.12.2014

5 Steps to Get Your Baby Sleeping Through the Night

Parents: We're all tired. We all know we're not the only ones who are going through this special brand of torture - that is, profound sleep deprivation. On our best days, we're happy with the way things are; on our worst days, we scour countless internet articles and baby-raising books in a mostly fruitless effort to find a "solution" to the "problem" of sleepless nights with children. If this is one of those articles you stumbled upon with propped eyelids and your tenth (twelfth?) cup of coffee in hand, hoping to find some revolutionary idea, you should probably keep Google searching. But if you are in need of a good laugh (and I'm willing to bet that you are), read on, dear friend. Read on and know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. And little Johnny WILL sleep through the night. Someday. Maybe in college...

STEP ONE: Roll with it.
Do whatever your baby wants for a year and a half or more. This may include chest sleeping, baby hogging the bed, nursing every hour or two every the night (which was the case for us since birth, hence the real need for a gentle change), and/or 3am baby parties. Just roll with it.
How to Be A Dad: Baby Sleep Positions


STEP TWO: Show him how good he has it.
Change it up a few times to remind him just how good he has it. Popular methods are the No Cry Sleep Solution and what we call the "Dr. Jay Gordon" method. 

Try each of these methods in earnest for a very long time. All parties will be so tired by the end they will revert back to Step One, much to the relief and enjoyment of baby.

DO YOU SEE HOW GOOD YOU HAVE IT?

STEP THREE: Make it fun.
Get cute sheets for that crib you've never used and make a BIG STINKING DEAL of it. 
"LOOOOK! LOOK AT YOUR STARRRRRS!"
"OH MY GOSH! STAAAARS!" 
"Do you want to lay down on your staaaars?" 
"GASP! Look at you in your Big Boy Bed!" (aka Dana Carvey's "Two Parent Technique" ) 
 
Practice having your child lay down in his or her "Big Kid Bed" a lot throughout the day. Make it a game. Oh crap, now sleeping is a game. 

OKAY, SCRATCH THAT.

STEP THREE, TAKE TWO: The Big Switcheroo.
These serve little more purpose than
to annoy the snot out of you.
The Big Switcheroo, which happens out of pure necessity due to your incredibly drafty house. Baby can no longer be between Mommy and the wall because of the oncoming Perpetual Illinois Winter; now baby has to be in the crib. 

Thankfully that crib you got (and never used, remember) is convertible. Spend an afternoon converting it to a toddler bed by figuring out how on earth to remove the correct railing with one of those tiny, useless Allen wrenches/hex keys/whatever you call 'em.

Once that nightmare is over, drag the twin mattress up to the attic, shove your queen mattress up against a wall, and place the newly-converted toddler daybed on the opposite side of the queen mattress. New family bed unit. BOOM.


STEP FOUR: Stage an intervention.
After a week in the new sleeping arrangement, stage an intervention. At dinner one night, have a sit-town with your tot and discuss your plans for night weaning. 
"I don't think we should talk down to children!"
The conversation will go something like this:
Mommy: "Now, Little Mouse, when Mommy goes night-night, milk goes night-night, too. When the sun comes up in the morning, Mommy will say, 'GOOD MORNING! Do you want milk?' But until then, the milk will be sleeping, okay?"
Little Mouse: "Nah."

Mommy: "You will sleep in your Big Boy Bed again, and the milk will sleep right next to you until morning, okay?"
Little Mouse: (laughing) "Nooooooo!"
Mommy: "Little Mouse, do you understand? Milk needs to go night-night at night like Mommy and Daddy and you. When the sun comes up, the milk will wake up with the rest of us."
Little Mouse: (shrugging flippantly) "No."
"You want me to do WHAT, Mom?"
"Yeah, okay..." *rolls eyes*
Realize that maybe the sun wasn't a good illustration since it's now very dark in the morning. Reinforce the idea of MOMMY asking BABY if he wants milk instead of the other way around as you're going through your bedtime routine.


STEP FIVE: Enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Marvel as baby puts himself to sleep after rolling into you to make sure you're still there each time he wakes up on nights one and two. Find yourself becoming less exhausted and more optimistic. CAUTIOUSLY optimistic.

Do a happy dance when naps start getting even easier during the day and he only needs to comfort nurse ONCE to fall back asleep on night three. PROGRESS! Glorious progress!

Pick your jaw up off the floor when YOU ALL SLEEP THE WHOLE 10 HOURS WITHOUT WAKING UP ONCE on night four.

TA-DAAA! That's all there is to it. Genius, right? I should write a book on this stuff.
Look! I've even designed a cover!
You're welcome. 


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AN IMPORTANT NOTE: Tired or not, I really am SO HAPPY we followed Little Mouse's lead and waited until HE was developmentally ready to gently help him learn to "sleep through the night." I am still laughing that it was our little "intervention" at dinner one night that effected this change!
UPDATE!After several days of sleeping well & writing this post, he returned to his default "up-every-two-to-three-hours" schedule. So we still haven't reached that blissful "sleeping through the night" phase, but that's okay. We co-sleep and LOVE it. I am there for him whenever he needs me, and I wouldn't have it any other way. He'll sleep when he's ready. :)

11.11.2014

{ HOW TO } Sew a Quick + Easy Kick Pleat

In our house, we LOVE Goodwill. It is amazing the number of items you can find there with the tags still on the items! Between those diamonds in the rough, a growing toddler, and the number of silky wool sweaters we cut up and upcycle into cloth diaper covers, we probably visit Goodwill at least once per month. And that's a conservative estimate.

One of my most treasured finds are beautiful skirts that I can wear around the house (sooo comfy!) or to church. I love feeling feminine in a flouncy frock! However, with the large population of Apostolic Christians in the area, second-hand denim skirts are pretty hard to come by. So you can imagine my excitement when I finally found a knee-length denim skirt...until I plucked it off the hanger to wear for the first time one day.

I had tried it on before, but I hadn't tried it on SITTING DOWN. And therein lied (lay? layed? whatever...) the problem. SLIT CITY, MAYUN!
So I decided to sew in a nice little kick pleat with some medium-weight fabric I had lying about. And NOW I'm going to show you how YOU can, too! Ready? Okay!

First, cut out a square of fabric that will cover the slit of your skirt. The square should be 4" wider than your slit (2" in each direction horizontally), and 2" taller than the slit (1" past the hem and 1" past the slit top).
Hem the bottom edge of your kick pleat square that you just cut. I chose to fold it twice and sew a wide hem to line up with the hemline of the skirt.

You may also choose to stitch around the raw edges of your fabric to prevent fraying, either with a serger or with a zigzag stitch on your regular sewing machine. Pressed for time and not wanting to be bothered to drag out my serger for such a little project, I chose the smallest zigzag stitch on my machine to finish those edges.
Turn your skirt inside-out and lay your kick pleat fabric right-side down. Line up the side of your kick pleat material with the side of the slit hem that is already there. Pin if needed. 
 
Sew along the edge. This is what it will look like:
 
 
Repeat for the other side. Now, this side I did pin to make sure it was all lined up. 
 
This is what it will look like when you've sewn the sides:
Now, take the kick pleat fabric at the top of the slit and fold it down against the skirt so that there are equal portions of fabric on either side of the slit. Iron and pin the sides in place toward the top.
Sew across the top with thread matching your skirt's fabric. Unless, you know, having a line of weird horizontal stitching across the middle of your skirt is a thing you're into.
And that's it! You're all done! Accompli! Completo! Etc. Etc.
Muuuuuch better!
 Isn't that so easy? Sans-toddlers, you could easily do this over lunch. I have a few more skirts that don't necessarily NEED a kick pleat, but could be made even cuter with a peek-a-boo of fun fabric! Uh-oh...now the gears are turning...

So break out those sewing machines, dig into your fabric scraps, and have fun! Show me your projects in the comments or email them to doormousedoodles [at] live.com. I'd love to add others' awesome finished projects to this post!

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11.02.2014

My Social Media Sabbatical: A Lesson In Quiet

Have you ever prayed for patience? What usually happens?

In my experience, when I pray to God for patience, He gives me more opportunities to practice being patient (probably because we're supposed to lean on Him for patience...but more on that later on in the post). Logically, more opportunities to practice patience always seems to me like the last thing I need when I'm at my wit's end. But, His ways are not our ways... 

And you know what? Reaching my breaking point is absolutely what I needed. 


Why I decided to kick social media for a season... 
In May, frustrated and tired from almost a year of no sleep (see: no more than two hours in a row since Little Mouse Baby's birth...something we're still working on), I cried out to God:

 “LORD, LORD! HOW can you expect me to be a good Mom, wife, disciple, and example of your love and grace if you don't give me rest?!”

And do you know what is so awesome? He answered right away. 

My child. How can you expect ME to do a good work in YOU if you don't rest in me?” 

Thus began a long discourse that night between He and I after I finally got Little Mouse back to sleep. The condensed version went a little something like this: 

God: “How are you spending your time?”
Me: “God, I read my Bible.”
God: “How are you spending your time?”
Me: “God, you know that I don't
have a lot of extra time.”
God: “You don't?”
Me: “No.”
God: “How much time do you spend on meaningless emotional investments?”
Me: “...”
God: “You're losing perspective.” 

He was right (obviously). I had lost perspective. I was investing my time and emotions in very trivial things that offer no lasting return. My life was so “noisy” with social media and technology, that I was distracted and easily ignoring the leading of the Holy Spirit in favor of my own fleshly desires – all to the detriment of my time, energy, and growth. Quite surprisingly, it didn't take much convincing. The very next day, I warned friends and family of the upcoming hiatus and 24 hours after that, I deactivated my Facebook account. It was a strange feeling, and I didn't know when – or even IF – I would ever return.

It quickly became very clear how much time I had been spending aimlessly scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed, reading news stories, keeping up with my favorite bloggers, and flat-out thinking about Facebook. *snap* “Oh, that would be such a cute picture to post of Eli!” ... “Hm...I wonder if she posted her cake smash pictures yet.” *snap* “New profile pic!” You may be familiar with those thoughts running through your head, or you may be like me and not even realize you did it until after you kick that crud to the curb!

After that, I stopped praying for patience and started praying for perspective. God revealed to me several verses as I earnestly searched His word over the next month. Each passage afforded increasing clarity into the true state of my heart. 

Patience 
Galatians 5:22-23 “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.”

Longsuffering – a.k.a. “patience” – is a fruit of the Spirit (duh). So, if it was patience I was after, I needed to draw nearer to God (double duh)! When I was praying for patience, God was responding by saying, “Okay, then, my child. Lean on me.” But instead of understanding that the surmounting challenges were designed to teach me what patience really is, and learning therefore to lean on God, I was getting frustrated that God wasn't answering my prayer the way I had expected.

Perspective
Colossians 3: 1-2: “Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.”

I was losing perspective. Heavenly perspective. Caught up in the noisiness of life and the constant barrage of technology, I was not setting my mind “on things above.”

I needed to stop worrying about what that guy said on the article with that picture that was reblogged from that Top Ten list that a girl shared on Facebook. Drama in the cloth diaper group? I always shook my head at the needless bickering, but in the shower or nursing Little Mouse in the wee hours of the morning, I'd find myself going back over the conversations many times over, thinking, “What's wrong with them? Don't they have anything better to do?” What was wrong with me?! There are certainly much more fruitful things I could be mulling over in my quiet moments! 

But even so, every evening, I would read my Facebook Newsfeed in a huff, irritated or angry with the negativity and bad attitudes of others. I was shifting my focus away from the plans, purposes, and blessings of God and to the things of the world, and in turn, the things of the world were pushing their way into every corner and crevice of my heart. I certainly wasn't adhering to the Bible's admonishing to “watch over your heart with all diligence.” (Proverbs 4:23)

I had contracted a “spiritual heart murmur.” I was letting the doors to my heart open up the wrong way; instead of being filled by God and allowing His love and goodness to flow freely, shining in my life, I was allowing things of the world to flow backwards, into my heart. But with the right perspective – setting my mind on the things above – this spiritual heart murmur was healed.

Pride 
Colossians 3:23: “Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men...”

Matthew 6: 19-21 “"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  

Matthew 6:33 “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” 

Pride. The sin that bore all sins. It's certainly one that I struggle with most if I'm not firmly rooted in God's Word. Once I lose patience and perspective, pride creeps in quietly, slowly hardening my heart and suffocating my spirit. It took a lot of prayer to admit I was dealing with A LOT of pride. 

My pride as a mother... 
I didn't think I ever compared Little Mouse to other children – in fact, I often spoke of how each child is an individual and will develop in his or her own time. God revealed the truth to me, though, with these three verses. Yes, it took THREE for me to say, “Okay, okay, God! You're right! I get it.” Because in the depths of my heart, I HAD been holding Little Mouse up on my own little shiny, Mommy-made pedestal (probably one I made with an idea I got from Pinterest. KIDDING!). It's okay to be PROUD of your child, but his advancements and new skills were becoming idols to me. “He's learned a new sign! He's stacking blocks! He's running, talking, singing, etc.! We should record a video of it and put it on Facebook! I bet a lot of people will like it!” Secretly and silently I had been comparing him to other little ones, namely his cousin. It took a lot of prayer and digging into God's Word to admit this sin not only to myself, but eventually to the person against whom I was sinning. 

My pride as a homemaker... 
Colossians 3:23 gets me through most days: “Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord...” gives me that extra energy when duty calls in whatever area of life. But my hard work at home began controlling me. If the house wasn't up to snuff because I didn't have the time to do all the dishes dirtied by baking with my ten-year-old sister-in-law “Auntie M” who I watched most days this summer, it affected my mood. If the house was clean, I was happy. If Little Mouse was having an exceptionally clingy week or we did something special one day with Auntie M and I didn't stick to my cleaning schedule, I'd get short. I finally realized I was placing my clean house on too high of a priority. A clean house is nice, and I prefer it, but being present with my family is irreplaceable. I needed to take a lesson from dear sister Martha (Luke:10:39-42).

My pride as a sister... 
I patted myself on the back way too many times at the beginning of the summer for watching Little Mouse's Auntie M on most days over the summer. So much so that I began resenting others for not watching her an equal amount. 

She stayed at our house three days each week, and occasionally more if there was something special going on like recording her music video or having a MacGyver slumber party night. There were days we went to the zoo, to the pool, or to the park; there were also days where we stayed at home, baking, doing chores and tasks for an allowance, or doing little more than napping when Little Mouse napped while she read or played “Donuteria” (we got really good at Donuteria!). Some days were good. Other days, I was happy to see the sun go down. But regardless of the day we had, I loved my time with her, and learned something new every day. Plus, Little Mouse absolutely ADORES his Auntie M, so it was such a precious thing to watch them grow even closer! 

I never had a second thought as to whether or not we could watch her this summer. I knew that family just plum does things for family, and that I would take her as many days as she needed a place to be, whether or not I was exhausted. However, a lot of pride ended up coming with that decision, and I began beating my chest in some sort of show of Mommy-greatness or something. I became a martyr in my own mind because of how generous I believed I was being in spite of how tired and busy I already thought I was. Then I began comparing myself to others, and the resentment crept in... Ugh, I was a mess of pride. A big ol' mess of ugly, slimy pride.

When God showed me that source of pride very shortly after deciding to get off of the internet, I prayed for humility and grace. I was humbled frequently over the course of our time together, and afforded many opportunities to lean on Him for patience and perspective. It wasn't until the END of the summer, though, that I dealt with the resentment that had bored its way into my heart. Once I confessed my feelings and that sin of my heart to my sister-in-law, God healed that scar I had let creep in and take control me. 

My pride in my God-given abilities... 
In college, I used to joke that I felt like a “Jack of all trades, master of none.” I didn't know what my calling was. After college, though (ooof course), I discovered how much I love, love, love knitting, sewing, and photography, and how easily all three of those trades come to me. I started Doormouse Doodles in 2010 and have been slowly growing since then. I now sell a few hand-knit or sewn things off and on under that name via Etsy (more off than on since Little Mouse takes up most of my time nowadays) and run Doormouse Photography, booking mostly senior photo sessions in the summer and autumn. I love the work! I love the people! But I was letting it eat up too much of my time and resources. I started comparing myself to others, and – you guessed it! – allowing the pride to swell in my chest. 

All three of these verses were instrumental in helping me realize and overcome this pride.

First, Colossians 3:23: “Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men...” My work is FOR THE LORD! NOT for men! And NOT for myself!

Matthew 6: 19-21 “"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. "But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” 
No matter how many accolades, likes, comments, bookings, sales, etc. I may get this side of heaven, it will do nothing for my eternal standing. I should work hard, and for the Lord, but with the understanding that it is not my work or popularity here on this earth that adds to my heavenly stores. I should strive always to seek after everlasting, heavenly rewards over worldly praise that is short-lived. 

“...for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” I learned that most of all, if my treasures are here in this world, then my heart is not guarded, and I'm opening myself up to fall back into the pit of pride and worldly perspectives.

Matthew 6:33 “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
Originally, I was not going to take any bookings for senior photo shoots over the summer because I was going to be watching Auntie M (remember: I thought myself a martyr for the cause). I realized when I read this verse, though, that if I put my relationship with God first, HE will give me what I need to get done what HE wants. Seek FIRST His kingdom and His righteousness, and EVERYTHING ELSE will fall into place. Maybe I wasn't supposed to take on any shoots, maybe I was. I began the summer after kicking the internet to the curb with an open heart for God's will. And he dropped 5 bookings into my lap without Facebook, a website, or any advertising! 

And the overarching lesson in cleaning out all of these prideful areas of my heart was that I needed to stop comparing myself to others and living by a worldly standard, and start living by GOD'S standards! Because when I compare myself to God's standard, I will always be learning and growing, and will constantly be humbled by His grace in spite of my failures and broken state; therefore pride will not overtake my heart. I understand more now than ever that any good that I do is because of HIM – any good that comes out of me is the HOLY SPIRIT.

His bountiful blessings in this season... 
Being off of social media this summer got me away from the procrastination and pseudo-connections of the internet. I was able to plant seeds in my life and in the lives of others, as well as allow the Holy Spirit to work through others in my life. I relished the respite from the rat race and extra time to focus on God and His will for my family.

I got organized with a Homemaker Planner (more on that in an upcoming post!), and finally got into a very consistent routine with housekeeping for the first time since Little Mouse's birth.

I even made a little chore and schedule area for Auntie M to follow on days when she was at our house. Having a schedule helped her in knowing what to look forward to and expect out of the day, and made my life a lot easier, too!

I was blessed with the opportunity to take on several senior shoots and sold a few handmade items on Etsy. This blessed our family with unexpected, extra financial provision and also gave me an outlet for my creativity and way to bless others with the talents God has given me. 

Staying off of my computer allowed spare time to spend with my husband as well, playing Ticket to Ride (we LOVE this game!) or talking about what we've been reading or studying in our Bibles. I have learned SO much from Him, not only in terms of wisdom and spiritual growth, but also in terms of being diligent about always reading and putting Bible study first, and doing other things only after I've spent time in God's Word.

This summer has also been an amazing time of growth for Little Mouse, both physically and mentally. Being “unplugged” has given me time to be entertained by him and him alone throughout the day and at the end of the day, reflect on all the amazing things he's been up to. This time has really fostered a newfound amazement with both God's creation, as well as this tiny glimpse into how He loves us as His children!

And of course, being unplugged has allowed me to step back from the camera and be present in each moment every day. Instead of being glued behind my viewfinder, trying to capture every fleeting second so I can remember this time years from now, I had to actually remind myself to grab the camera and take a few snapshots! It was definitely a refreshing change of pace for an admitted shutterbug!

So, what now?
Well, as evidenced by my reappearing Facebook profile page, I've decided to hop back on. I rejoined mostly because of my “Mommy-friends” and family from whom I'm separated by hundreds of miles, and with whom I keep in touch mostly through Facebook. However, I plan to spend A LOT LESS time on it than I did before, for more reasons than just the time factor.

One thing that played a part in why I was so convicted to get off of Facebook for a spell is that, quite honestly, a lot of what I see shared on there is either (a) not God-honoring or (b) simply distracting from the important things in life. And that's how Satan works – one little nudge away from the Truth at a time. Getting back onto Facebook “full swing” would be foolhardy and by no means guarding my heart. So I'll be in and out – though mostly “out” – of that neck of the woods. Most of my updates will be going on here at The Doormouse House instead of Facebook. 

Now, let me be clear: In all of this, I'm not saying that Facebook or social media is totally unwholesome. Nor am I of the mindset that everyone should take a time-out from it for awhile. I definitely found myself missing my distant family and my “Mommy-friends” from all around the country who have children Little Mouse's age, since Facebook is the only way we keep in touch. But I believe that we could ALL benefit from carefully examining how we are spending our time and prayerfully considering how our pastimes are affecting every aspect of both our earthly and spiritual lives. 

Lucas and I prayerfully decided last year that if we could watch a two-hour movie and remember it almost line for line, why couldn't we spend two hours in our Bibles instead, and get so much more from that time spent? Since then, I can count the number of times we've watched a movie together on one hand (and both were for research purposes, actually!), and God has blessed us enormously for following His conviction and leading for our family! 

I have some awesome things planned for the blog as we get into the Christmas season, so make sure you keep up-to-date! You can subscribe to updates here at The Doormouse House to get all the goodness sent straight to your email inbox, or bookmark the blog and check back every now and then. Though I won't be 'active' in the Facebook community, I will be sure to hop on now and then to share links to the blog entries I post, so you can follow our goings-on there, too. Hope to see you around!

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